Commitment
Throughout my life, till now I have been searching for the question, “Why are we inside, afraid of relationship?” I won’t say I have found the ANSWER, but there is one which leaves me satisfy with it…at least it leaves me mind pondering. A quote from one of Ally McBeal’s episodes, “I have a friend who refuses to get a pet because he says in the end they die and it’s just too hard. Maybe it’s the same with relationships.” What do you think of that? Perhaps that’s the half truth of an answer? I know most people would think so, as sometimes relationships don’t last. People are afraid of that, because when that happens, someone will definitely be getting hurt…and that the pain would be just too much to bear. So that’s why I think relationships are like having a pet…because when we are having one, affections towards each other will be developed. Every living thing will leave away at sometime in life, thus we will be sad when that time comes and will have the urge to try preventing that “hurt” from happening in future. Those who longed for companionship and love will risk and try again. However there will be others who will build wall around them. It’s a battle of loved and be loved.
