Good deeds?!
Ever heard of the chinese phase " ho sum pei lui pek" means do good but the lighting strikes u anyway?Well, that’s what been happening in my life and i have decided not to allow myself to be strike anymore.People can be so mean at times and childish..I’m so done with being nice to people who doesn’t deserve my friendship.Narrow-minded people and stubborn people are the worst kind of human race.There is truely no cure for them unless they realised their flaws and decided to change it.
Throughout the years, lessons learnt.I will try to be sensible about things, depending on circumstances. However I have decided not be a door mat for people. If I think things have gone too far and unbearable, I will first ask myself these questions;Should I tell the person off, tell them that their attitudes are not acceptable and that my honestly is truely based with good intention that I wish them not to repeat the mistakes on other people nor time.And how important of their friendship to me?If they ain’t cool ’bout it, then should i be sad and grief upon our potentially ruin friendship?or maybe theiy ain’t worth my friendship?If u are encountering things like this, pls ask yourself these questions.If it helps, Im glad it helps and I wish you all the best in things:)
October 9th, 2005 at 5:38 pm
Wah..what happened to make you so disappointed in ur frens?
Well no worries. life’s like that. We can just give advices which some ppl may or may not like at all.
At least we tried to help. The final choice and action is still up to them not us.
Although it’s really maddening bloody lotsa times when u kena striked by lightning. LOL..
SABAR!! Be like 0;p